What would you say to nervous Singles about getting started with interracial dating?

Be open.  Don’t take anything personal. Just laugh!

Dating another race or culture will give you an experience that will be enlightening for the rest of your life. You will learn and see things that you may have never been exposed to otherwise. If you are considering dating someone outside of your race, you’re obviously not alone. Depending on where you live, this seems to be the trendy thing to do and I expect that this is more than a trend; this is our future.

My thoughts to nervous singles is to be cool and have no worries. The person you are about to go out with is probably nervous too.  Two negatives make a positive!  Haha….that’s just me being cheeky. Seriously though, just be ready to learn. Know yourself and be ready to share. The most exciting thing about interracial dating is that you will learn about each other.

Watch out for certain comments that really are not flattering:

“I have never dated a black girl before, so I thought I would give it a try”.

“I have always wanted to try dating someone exotic”.

“I wanted to find out if what they say about black men is true”.

“I heard Asian girls are submissive”.

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